
Breast self-exam: Letâs be honest: most of us donât spend a lot of time checking our breasts unless something feels âoff.â But regular self-exams can help you spot changes early, and early matters. No, itâs not about becoming a hypochondriac and poking at yourself every other day. Itâs about getting familiar with what your normal feels like, so youâll know when something isnât.
Start in front of the mirror:
First things first, stand in front of the mirror with your arms relaxed at your sides. Just look. Notice the shape, the size, the skin. Breasts arenât perfectly symmetrical, so donât panic if oneâs slightly bigger or hangs differently. What you want to pay attention to are visible changes: dimpling, puckering, redness, or the skin taking on that odd âorange peelâ texture.
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Now, lift your arms above your head. This shifts the tissue and can make abnormalities more noticeable. Again, youâre looking for differences, any distortion, swelling, or a nipple pulling inward when it didnât before.
Feel while standing or sitting:
Next comes the hands-on part. Use the pads of your fingers (not the tips, theyâre too pokey) and press gently but firmly, moving in small circles. Some people prefer a clockwise pattern starting at the outer edge; others prefer a top-to-bottom pattern. Honestly, the method doesnât matter as much as consistency. Cover the entire breast, including the armpit; that area is often forgotten, but breast tissue extends there, too.
Youâll feel firmer areas, softer areas, maybe some lumpy texture, depending on where you are in your cycle. Thatâs normal. Whatâs not normal? A distinct lump that feels hard, irregular, or doesnât shift when you press it.
Donât forget the lying-down check:
When you lie down, the breast tissue spreads out, making it easier to feel deeper structures. Slip a small pillow or folded towel under your right shoulder, place your right arm behind your head, and use your left hand to check your right breast (then switch). Move in the same circular or vertical motions you used before. Take your time here; sometimes it takes a minute to distinguish between normal density and something suspicious.

Breast cancer red flags you shouldn’t ignore:
Hereâs the part people skip over, but itâs the most important: knowing when to call your doctor. See a professional if you notice:
- A hard, fixed lump that wasnât there before
- Unexplained nipple discharge (especially if itâs bloody)
- Changes in skin texture: dimpling, thickening, or redness that doesnât fade
- A nipple that suddenly turns inward
- Swelling or lumps in the underarm area
- Persistent pain localised to one spot
A quick note: most lumps arenât cancer. Cysts, fibroadenomas, hormonal changes; theyâre common. But you donât want to play guessing games with your health. If something feels suspicious, let a doctor decide.
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Doing a self-exam once a month, ideally a few days after your period ends, is enough. Think of it less as a âtestâ and more like a check-in with your body. No one knows your breasts better than you do, and noticing changes early can make all the difference.
